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"The meaning of the power of the great shows itself in the fact that one pauses"
Feeling pretty despondent, I asked the question "Should I forget all about him and try to move on as nothing much is likely to happen, or should I persist - even passively, simply by keeping the faith - because things may yet turn out well?".
I got hex. 34 unchanging. Could someone please help me interpret the answer?
"Pausing" is kind of ambivalent.
"there used to be a street named chuck norris, but they changed it because no one crosses chuck norris and lives..."
Feeling pretty despondent, I asked the question "Should I forget all about him and try to move on as nothing much is likely to happen, or should I persist - even passively, simply by keeping the faith - because things may yet turn out well?".
I got hex. 34 unchanging. Could someone please help me interpret the answer?
From my experience, it's an impossible position to be in. Can mean you ... don't have priority.
Now that the anawer is more specific and includes hexagram 54, you've got something very particular to consider. From my experience, it's an impossible position to be in.
happiness never comes from our relationships. It comes from within us.
How important that is -- not having priority -- is something only Leika can know. Some women would be devastated by loneliness. Another woman might say, "Oh, he won't be around all the time and I can study the I Ching more." In other words, while he is doing what is most important to him, you also have the freedom to do whatever is most important to you. You might need to decide first: What is most important to me? Having a man who is attentive and present, or my other projects and interests? After all, happiness never comes from our relationships. It comes from within us.
have you found the predictions to be cast in stone? Or do they sometimes change if you do the work (on yourself) and change?
They change.
Interesting that you got 16 as your relating hexagram. 16 is Harmonizing People. It is very easy for you two to be together.
54 is, I think, only one aspect of this relationship. When it comes to relationships, many hexagrams apply simultaneously.
By the way, I consider 54.2 to be one of the most fortunate positions of all to be in, because it gives one the freedom to develop on the spiritual level.
if you were his only interest it could be a bit intense for some people.
Yes, and don't Tigers usually have plenty of their own projects that require time and attention -- while Mr. Dragon is off doing whatever martial arts instructors do best.
Further to this question that I asked a few days ago, and after spending some time with him yesterday, I have asked the I-Ching:
If I ask him "Do you feel we can have something more beautiful together (than the set-up we currently have)? Else I feel we should stop seeing each other" will that motivate him positively towards me?
I got 55.1.3>31. Is this basically a "green light" to go on and ask him...?
As "more beautiful" is entirely subjective this is a confused and potentially confusing statement IMHO.
You may have to do equal parts of leading the way and following your own path, you own idea of relationship, as suggested in 55.1 and letting him fall in with it and/or being the inspiration as suggested in 55.3.
True... But I phrased it exactly the way I intend to phrase it to him (to make it sound less "threatening").
You mean me or him being the inspiration?
Thank you arabella
There has got to be a certain mentality in a person who choices self-defense as the centre of his life. Think about it.
I'm very much into martial arts myself - in fact that's how I met him - so I can relate to that part, but it's funny; it feels like we're two positive poles, cancelling each other out, obviously I have to be the yin to his yang as he hints - pretty much all the time - that women should be doing instead of attempting to "act like men" (?). Anyway, having to convince someone to accept you into their life does sound and feel insulting. But apparently loads of "big romances" in history have started out just like that, with the woman going all yin and "masterminding" the fall of the guy.
So, maybe discuss it in terms he will understand. Because I think "something more beautiful" is going to elude him entirely from the sounds of it.
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