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When will I meet the man I will marry? Hex 61

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Hi everyone, I'm completely new to the I Ching so I hope I've done this properly. My entire life, my intuition has been telling me that I will experience love in its truest, deepest form once I begin to walk the path of self-actualization in the highest sense. I've always envisioned this as moving towards a state where I am truly tranquil, blissful, and confident in my soul, with harmony between all aspects of my being and minimal discrepancies and self-doubts. Outwardly, I imagine this state manifesting as me pursuing a career path that feels meaningful and fulfilling, and developing a sense of inner worth where I feel innately valuable and beautiful, irrespective of how I'm perceived by others. Inwardly, this state would mean that I feel deeply connected to my Creator in a way that feels automatic and ever-present, a connection that cannot be weakened by external circumstances or distractions. Should I interpret this hexagram as being an affirmation of these beliefs? Is it essentially telling me that once I'm in alignment with my goal of self-actualization, love will appear in my life? My confusion on this subject stems from social pressure and a fear that I'm being too passive by trusting that the right person will naturally enter my life when my soul is ready. Because my friends and family want to see me settle down, I'm often introduced to or pursued by potential mates, but I l've turned them down because so far, none of them have felt like my soul's true match. I often worry that I'm relying too heavily on my intuition when evaluating these potential partners, but my soul simply yearns for a relationship that feels "right". Anyone have any insight? Sorry for how long this is!
 

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Hi Red, l drew the same hex 61 but with line 2 moving for almost similar question. I read somewhere that this hex 61 corresponds to acquaintances with people that we already knew. So my guess YOU have already met him and the most auspicious line that resonates meeting of a kindred soul is at line 2. You have an unchanging hex. So l assume you will meet this guy or already met a guy this month. Hopefully soon you will start a meaningful relationship. He will ask you for a date. Wine involved. Hopefully he is not a pig but a good fish lol. Read the meaning of hex 61. You will get what l have said.
 
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Little red, did you just get 61 with no moving lines? If so, that's called 61 unchanging, or, 61uc. It would be good if you can confirm that.
 
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Hi Red, l drew the same hex 61 but with line 2 moving for almost similar question. I read somewhere that this hex 61 corresponds to acquaintances with people that we already knew. So my guess YOU have already met him and the most auspicious line that resonates meeting of a kindred soul is at line 2. You have an unchanging hex. So l assume you will meet this guy or already met a guy this month. Hopefully soon you will start a meaningful relationship. He will ask you for a date. Wine involved. Hopefully he is not a pig but a good fish lol. Read the meaning of hex 61. You will get what l have said.
That's very interesting, thank you! When you drew this, did your love life work out? I did sort of cross paths with a guy this month and something about him felt special, but as far as I know, he didn't seem interested. I was quite disappointed, but that's life I guess. Meanwhile, a couple of other prospects are on the horizon. Should I stop thinking and simply allow things to unfold?
 

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Yes let it fold on its own. I'm still waiting lol. Coz l.drew 61.2 just a week ago. We are having mercury retrogade so its better to wait till it passes. Because during retrogade, emotions can be confusing. By April 16, all will be normal. Good luck.
 

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The iching parameters of your hex 61 as per time domain

神煞:天乙—卯巳 福星—辰 日禄—子 羊刃—亥 驿马—巳 桃花—子 华盖—未
干支:己亥年 丁卯月 癸亥日 己未时
旬空:辰巳  戌亥  子丑  子丑

六神  伏神    艮宫:风泽中孚(游魂)
         【本 卦】
白虎       ▅▅▅▅▅ 官鬼辛卯木  
滕蛇 妻财丙子水 ▅▅▅▅▅ 父母辛巳火  
勾陈       ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟辛未土 世
朱雀 子孙丙申金 ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟丁丑土  
青龙       ▅▅▅▅▅ 官鬼丁卯木  
玄武       ▅▅▅▅▅ 父母丁巳火 应
If you read the text of this hexagram, it will misguide you to believe that two parties really love each other and will get together. This is untrue in your situation.

61.6 Officer = Male mao wood, yang line
61.5 Parents = Relation si fire, yang line; hidden line: wife zi water, ying line
61.4 Brother = third party wei earth (host line): ying line
61.3 Brother = third party chou earth ying line; hidden line child shen metal
61.2 Officer = Male mao wood, yang line
61.1 Parents = Relation si fire, yang line

干支:己亥年 丁卯月 癸亥日 己未时
旬空:辰巳  戌亥  子丑  子丑
Time domain parameters:
Hai water year (void: chen earth, si fire)
Mao wood month (void xu earth, hai water)
Hai water day (void zi water, chou earth)
Wei earth day (void zi water, chou earth)

Relation is si fire which is year void. Not much hope.
Relation is si fire which is day conflict under the house of spouse (no taker or commitment)

Host line is brother line wei earth which suppresses the wife line.
Guest line is relation line with unfavorable stars (see above)

There are two male lines at 61.6 and 61.2. The female line is hidden and has no relation to any of the officer line.
61.6 male is too far away (not a candidate)
61.2 male is closer to you as a possibility, but you do not show interest or not know.

Hex 61 is a soul drifting hexagram. You do not know where you heart and soul lie. If you do not know what you want, then how can you seek and catch.

Hex 61 is sun wood above tui metal. The Chi point downwards. The tui metal is the female. She expects the male to follow her, and she does not use the come together approach between male and female. Sun wood is gentle wind. Wind does not stay. He can be a business man or traveller.

Not much hope for the near future unless you are willing to follow a male to go where he goes, which include moving away to where he works. Otherwise not much hope.
 

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Thx long yi. Could it mean parent si fire will appear if its in a different year?
 

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I'm a little confused though, this year is earth pig year. It has earth element. Pig may clash with snake. But l wonder if the heavenly stem of earth year sustains this relationship. I casted mine before chinese new year. A man l know reconnected but in March he dissapeared. I casted will l meet my soul mate and again 61.2 appeared.
 

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Hello Little Red!

When will I meet the man I will marry? Hex 61
When you find someone you can trust in your very center of self: "Inner Truth moves even pigs and fish, and leads to good fortune. There will be advantage in crossing the great stream. There will be advantage in being firm and correct." Everything will be advantageous then.
If you're asking about the time, I guess the I-Ching invites you to rely on your intuition & have faith in it without worrying much about the time.
 

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