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Hrm, was hoping for a take on this... especially for 14.1.2 to 56, which is still sorta flummoxing me.
So last night I got up the guts to at least talk about my feelings, and I got the answer I was expecting. My having feelings is okay, but expectations are not - there's no risk of this becoming a serious relationship, in other words. The interaction beyond that was pretty much the same. He cares, he's happy I'm in his life, but nothing serious and, as he put it, "I'd be an awful candidate for a rebound."
So that's that as far as expectations are concerned, but we'll continue to see each other, I'm sure.
I threw just for a now what regarding the environment and best practices, that sort of thing. I got this:
Hexagram 19 - Unchanging
Flourishing? Uh... I'm assuming this is referring to perhaps without the expectations in the back of my head the friendship can sorta flourish without me being as "restrained" as I've been? I mean, I quite honestly act pretty pinned up, afraid of letting loose in certain ways.
Or, this could mean that I now will have other options flourish. Springtime. That kind of thing. (There do seem to be other interested/interesting parties.)
Also, as threads suggested asking a follow up question for me, I asked about the results for me -- in what condition am I likely to end up, especially with this 8th month thing... (To be clear, I was not asking about what is in store for us -- no expectations -- but rather how *I* will fair personally, emotionally as I'm moving along with this new frame of mind.)
I got 14.1.2 to 56
Well, someone's moving... dunno why it's giving me this answer when I'm asking about me, though...
I apologize in advance for not understanding the quote thing...
I continue because, despite the impossibility of realizing any "long term goal" i.e. life partner, I am still getting something I need. He actually is being pretty theraputic. One thing though... what do you mean by level of dishonesty posturing as honesty?
.The question was definitely asking about my relationship with this man, best practices for me and the trending of the environment between the two of us (especially considering I don't want to cut him out of my life despite plans to date others, perhaps people who *will* be good candidates for a rebound - actually his saying he's bad for a rebound gave me insight into what he thinks I'm looking for, even if I didn't say this) and was definitely not about the larger picture
I was also confused by the hex as it really does speak of expectations and moving forward. But perhaps this is referring to only a flourishing friendship or closeness now that the cat is out of the bag or something. It *does* seem really strange that just after being told by the man not to expect something, the IC is telling me to expect something.
(But if the question is more about him I can't really say. I can't say because you can't admit to expectations whilst having expectations so the questions aren't clear and so it's not clear what the answers refer to either.)
Anyway 14.1.2>56 in general looks like a picture of maximising every opportunity to enrich your life whilst being in a somewhat unknown or temporary situation. 14.2 looks like you are ready to move on to the next thing. You say there are other interested parties ? well it looks a good time to see where they take you ?
I'd hazard a guess from these readings that someone else is on the horizon who helps you go where you need to get to. The 19 and the 14.1.2 make me think this is about someone who furthers you. That is they advance you, further your interests, cause you to prosper and flourish. Does he or did he do do that ? If not then that is the new influence entering, an influence, maybe even a temporary one (56) that actually brings growth to all areas of your life, not just romantic. A connection that takes you somewhere maybe
but it also seems to suggest I'm hanging out looking for readings too much.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).