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I ask the question " What does S. want from me?" and recieved 20 Unchanging. t.
Hi Guys
I have been following this closely and have been digesting all your comments. In some ways I seemed to have reached a fork in the road, in terms of emotions, rational and perspective. I think that there maybe some kind of impasse where we are both waiting to see what happens, both unable to make or not prepared to, first move. I have understood the need to not over react and being under "Enthusiasm" to be grounded and not carried away, but there seems to be now a feeling that I am wrong if I do and wrong if I don't.. I think if I look at this situation in the cold light of day, I would say that I think that S. has given a couple of opportunities for the waves to part but I have not read them in time and the moment has passed. I the deep of the night.. I get to thinking that this is all imaginary on my behalf and that she only wants friendship, but then I guess you can't stop feelings and emotions.
I am becoming increasingly confused about where this path is taking me and the guidance from the IC has consistently counciled that patience is the best approach via a number of readings, and I think it might be time to take a step back and not risk a great friendship I have for the sake of maybe an 'over'? enthusiastic desire and maybe imagination. I think the only way of finding out if my thoughts and feelings are are grounded and in reality is to ask her? but then that would be incorrect at the moment..
So now I shall sit quietly (metaphorically) in the corner and see what occurs...
As ever
Tom
So.. after taking some time to think about what pantherpanther said, I tried to think about past patterns of behaviour and what Enthusiasm meant to me. I am still unsure of the outcome as have been trying to remember when I had such feelings. I can see parallels between my behaviour and comments quoted, but surely in life we ask further questions from the events that happen in our lives from family, friends etc, and I guess I am no different from the bulk of the 'population' when not understanding the answer seek to clarify by further questioning to reach that understanding. I do accept that it is better to seek one reading and focus on the meaning of that reading but when, maybe to a beginner to the forms of the IC it seems quite natural to ask further questions. I take on board the comments about patience and habitual behaviour, but until I have a better understanding if the Yiching it is all about the journey and not the arrival?! or the understand rather than the answer..
Anyway enough of me and normal service shall be resumed shortly.
{snip}I don't have any opinion about doing many readings, as "follow ons." I think taking one reading at a time applies, too. I noticed someone commented on another thread concerning a relationship reading that they should consider what the hexagrams say is 'about how you see or think , not about how she sees or thinks .' Interesting thought.
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Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).