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What is X's biggest fear with regard to pursuing me?
This is all in your thoughts at the moment. Your question assumes that he first wants to pursue you and then secondly that he is frightened to do this for some reason.
I didn't say you asked a wrong question
I didn't say you actually have wrong assumptions
Most of time, there are exceptions of course, when someone gets hex 1 unchanging it is a sign that the assumptions behind the question are wrong.
Even though I think the Yi can be "abused" by too many futile questions about relationships in the form of "(s)he loves me , (s)he loves me not"...well maybe not abused, but misused.... I ALSO feel that it will very effectively give you a glimpse of what you are dealing with in terms of another person's stance. Many, Many times it has given me an accurate "heads up" on the way another person is thinking/feeling/behaving.
The assumptions that we make form part of a basic trust that responders such as yourself, should respect and appreciate rather than patronize and suggest that we have it all wrong! otherwise there's no point really in prying into people's problems.... Sorry but I see a lot of that going on on this forum.
Willowfox wow that's quite a reading. Thanks for your insight. As great as it is on one hand to consider that's how he might see me (which I believe he likely does from our history) it's also a catch 22 because I think the very same about him! And I wouldn't want any one to be afraid of me or me to be afraid of them - not a great foundation for love...But I understand it could be more afraid in an "exciting" sense rather than a terror sense.....I hope so!
For those willing to learn
Here there is a domination theme, you, soft and squidgy, enter into a relationship with him, then you morph into a brazen woman who literally takes over his life. So, back to the question and its answer, which is no he is not confident, he is minding is own business and you seduce him, you make the first move in order to ensnare him.
Edited to say that Karcher is not on my list of reliable I Ching authors, some of his interpretations are really strange. Personally I never consult any of his writings, some things are just plain incorrect.
Some readers can be straight out, plain rude on this site, with a holier than you attitude, but if you want to continue, either ignore their answers or find and press the ignore their posts button.
Mmm, 2 completely different readings! How does one really determine what the IC is telling
Enmedio (and at times Mike) while I appreciate your alternative insight into my problem, I have noticed that you tend to jump in and criticise a lot about people's questions - what they ask and how, before simply attempting to answer the question in an obvious way. I understand this is part of learning how to use the IC, but in your own words the IC is "easy" and we should ask simple straight forward questions for a clear answer.....which I very much did. Your first reaction is to think negative! i.e. that the question or assumptions are wrong, but I know the history of my situation (as do most people on this site who post about themselves). Furthermore, when I ask my questions it's usually because the IC has pointed out something that has led me to ask that next question. Therefore we naturally ask a question on the basis of assumptions and we don't necessarily give the entire history of the situation otherwise we could be here forever! There is also the issue of wanting to get a clear objective reading i.e. if you give too much of the situation away in your own words and thoughts, the intepreter might be influenced by that. Willowfox seems to have the right approach in that she offers an immediate response to a very clear question - while she doesn't/hasn't got it right every single time (how could anyone unless they know the entire situation - the IC has several different interpretations for the one reading), she at least offers one very clear and obvious interpretation of the situation.
The assumptions that we make form part of a basic trust that responders such as yourself, should respect and appreciate rather than patronise and suggest that we have it all wrong! otherwise there's no point really in prying into people's problems.... Sorry but I see a lot of that going on on this forum.
It's an assumption on both your parts to assume that people who post questions about their own situations don't actually have a grasp on those situations!!
You should perhaps consider this and attempt to answer the question in a clear straight forward way before jumping in to say that it's wrongly phrased or it's an incorrect assumption. Maybe both views would be helpful in learning about how to interpret the IC better i.e. respond in a trusting straight forward manner (like Willowfox did) and then offer alternatives about possible misconceptions and assumptions.
And Enmedio with all due respect (as I am unsure of how long you have been learning the IC) you are listed as a junior member so perhaps it would be wise to approach other people's problems with a little more sensitivity and humility, as it is quite a privilege to be invited in to respond.....
Blessings to all of you. I hope we have all learnt something from this reading
Jazzy
"you ignored the people who were being honest and hooked onto the one who fed your dreams..thats all.
All i have learned is once how again how sadly gullible people can be...again..
Some readers have a conscience. I haven't seen anyone being rude in this thread, just honest.
you ignored the people who were being honest and hooked onto the one who fed your dreams..thats all.
LOL wake up Jazzy ! "junior member" only means number of posts on forum, nothing to do with knowledge.
The question hasn't been answered in an obvious way..there is no obvious way for such a fuzzy question based on false assumption as yours was.
Having some experience i guess Mike and Enmedio were simply pointing that out to you...but you don't to know that...you are quite happy to be spoon fed what you want to hear.
Respect was shown to you by assuming you were intelligent enough to understand that a question based on an assumption was not going to lead you far..but you didn't want that you wanted the quick fix of having your assumption confirmed that this guy is wanting to pursue you. There is nothing in the readings to make a definite statement that he even wants to...if there ever could be.
"it is a privilege to be invited to respond" oh really ? how so ? ..you ignored the people who were being honest and hooked onto the one who fed your dreams..thats all. All i have learned is once how again how sadly gullible people can be...again..
still countless females seem to go through this very same process here every day of the week...we never know what happens to them, I just don't see that many coming back to say "reader i married him".
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