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Hi Patro and anyone else who can chime in about this.personally i had mixed experience with hex 11 unchanging.... what i noticed is that when i'm nervous or stressed because i have to manage a well known stressing task.... the outcome for 11 is peace, joy and or success.
the situation outcome is a bit different when i'm asking by being safe about something.
I do not have a significant other to protect me. I just have a bunch of girl friends. I feel like the allies might be the cops. I might have to wait to see if something "worthy" of calling happens. Sometimes the police disregard people's cry's for help.‘In great difficulties, partners come.’
Great difficulties, not just ordinary ones. In these times help comes – allies, people invested in the same things you are. They bring support, but not an absolute guarantee you’ll win through.
I think that 39.5 is saying to reach out and you'll find more help than you ever imagined. Just go...the people to assist you are there. Just ask. Also says that when things seem darkest, the forces to arise and help are enormous, and will be on your side.I had the worst nights sleep. Ugh. I am really getting a feeling about this. It is so strange. I don't think it is good. I asked today "If I remain calm and do not act, how will things turn out in regards to X? I got 39.5>15. I need help and I am going to get it. It seems that from my instincts and also the readings, AND also the way he is texting me and leaving me "urgent" messages from TWO cell phone numbers, that he isn't going to just back off. He has stated that he is upset that I haven't returned his messages. He get's upset and then in the next message very "sweet". He's very unbalanced.
I went outside this morning for work and there was a huge flock of loud crows flying over my apartment building. First off it was dark. They must have gotten up early to send me their message. And Second, they were flying NE in the direction that he said he lived. In the valley. Crow's to me are a sign and a warning of mischief and trickery. The crows themselves are defender's and trying to make people aware of the dark situation. I am always looking for them to help me. I have rarely seen them before the sun comes up.
I have a couple people I can stay with. From the bottom of my heart I thank you for responding. I was panicked and it helped to hear some good advice.
Even though I am going to leave my apartment for a couple of days, I get the feeling like that isn't what the Yi is talking about. I think that it might be saying simply waiting it out will not work.
Hilary's translation and comments on 39.5:
I do not have a significant other to protect me. I just have a bunch of girl friends. I feel like the allies might be the cops. I might have to wait to see if something "worthy" of calling happens. Sometimes the police disregard people's cry's for help.
Am I reading 39.5>15 right? That I cannot do this alone.
thank youI think that 39.5 is saying to reach out and you'll find more help than you ever imagined. Just go...the people to assist you are there. Just ask. Also says that when things seem darkest, the forces to arise and help are enormous, and will be on your side.
Let it go -- protect and preserve yourself first. Hexagram 40 Unchanging.
I am finding out I have very wonderful and quite protective friends.I think that 39.5 is saying to reach out and you'll find more help than you ever imagined. Just go...the people to assist you are there. Just ask. Also says that when things seem darkest, the forces to arise and help are enormous, and will be on your side.
Also, do nothing to avert the trouble. The man has troubles. They are not your troubles. Yi says, "Be peaceful."Yi said 26.1>18 ... I did take that as stop and do not proceed.
You must free yourself internally from the sense of connection to this troubled man. You don't owe him any explanation. He has somehow caught your imagination and you're wondering what you should do. My interpretation is that Yi is saying that if you get your imagination free -- you will be okay.So, I don't know if i am asking too many questions, but i asked, "what will happen if i kindly tell him i am not interested"? === 40UC.
Stop reading his text messages.AND also the way he is texting me and leaving me "urgent" messages from TWO cell phone numbers
You said it. He's extremely needy right now but that doesn't mean you have to respond to his neediness.He's very unbalanced.
That is what I was trying to say and couldn't. Thank you.I say 'driven,' because one gets the sense from what AQ has written that he isn't intending to stop or that he keeps going past the point that the 'normal' interchange would have stopped. In other words, he's using force when none is called for. It's an energy thing, not a question of overt actions.
Hi Lava. I appreciate your approach at looking at this differently. I have to go with my instincts. As for the Yi's advice, I think it was, and usually is, talking to me. If I could rephrase your advice - "I turn around and go back and there would be good fortune". I think it was telling me not to pursue things further.Look, you have to look at hexagrams in the context of the specific question asked. The question was "What will happen if I tell him I'm not interested" and the Yi said he'd turn around and go back and there would be good fortune. .
My geers don't run that way. I would never even think to approach a situation that way, let alone execute it. And like I said before, I was interested in him. I was going to take things slowly in the beginning. He was a very physically attractive man. Classically so. He was tall dark and handsome. He was also a bit nerdy looking, which I liked. Looks are not everything. Vibes are important. When he originally texted and I was sleepy, I thought to myself "I will contact him soon". But it was a very simple thought. I don't want to rush.Are you sure you aren't giving him "the silent treatment" because you wish to make an emotional statement about you not being attracted to him, rather than really trying to solve the situation? And to make the point "this is your right," to not talk to him?
These things did cross my mind Lava. To contact him to at least tell him I am not interested. I care about human emotions and how other people are affected by others. I went over and over it again in my head. But thru this thread, talking to my friends, and just really listening to myself, I think it is best not to open the lines of communication. Things just got a little too odd for my liking. Silence will have to talk on my behalf in this situation. If he is a nice guy and the series of events that took place were missunderstood, he will still get over it. We only spoke (back and forth) one time in a store isleway.The way it looks to me is, this has a lot to do with your sense of uncertainty - insecurity. If you had simply texted him the next day that you weren't really available to go out with him, thanks but no thanks, please lay off it bothers me, you would know for certain rather than have to guess and be scared for what could well be no good reason
I believe you might be right about what the Yi's intent was. Perhaps it is saying to clear the air. I think it is speaking of myself still, but you might be right.....Thunder and rain set in:
The image of DELIVERANCE.
Thus the superior man pardons mistakes
And forgives misdeeds.
Back to your original question, I think Yi was saying, "Peace, child" or "Please be peaceful." Yi can be very reassuring in moments of extreme stress.I am a little freaked out currently. I asked, "What can I do to ensure I am safe from X"? and received 11 unchanging.
Gee, you two only knew each other for a few minutes in an aisle in a store and already you were embroiled in some sort of argument/snafu/conflict/turmoil/fight-or-flight scenario. Doesn't bode well for any kind of relationship in the future, does it?Things just got a little too odd for my liking.We only spoke (back and forth) one time in a store isleway.
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