Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
It's without mistake, and a it's progress.Yi, please comment on me leaving before this weekend....25.1.5 to 35
Look at Bradford's translation of 14.2:Please comment on me leaving next week...14.2 to 30
The "Not Yet Across" time is over. Free yourself.please comment on me staying, doing my very best, things are bettering in his own personal life a bit, seeing if things change since they always do.....64.6 to 40.
Kind but be careful. There are some unscrupulous people around who try to take advantage. They might buddy up with you via private message here, draw you in, get you to share and not be what they seem. I'd say that to anyone here actually. 99 % of people will be fine, genuine I'm sure, but just hold a little caution in reserve until you know who they are. Especially if you don't know them from here and they just joined today or something.If you are in a bad situation, please reach out to me if you have no one else! I will listen.
That's the point. You've put 20 years to deal with your husband. Don't put the rest of your life for your children. Live your own life as much as you can.Angry little tyrants. I maybe can save most of them, but I have to be careful not to stress myself out too much.
Surely if you have young children, you chose to have them, you owe them everything as you bought them into the world and so you are responsible for them regardless of what they are like.Don't put the rest of your life for your children. Live your own life as much as you can.
True, you did say 'as much as you can'. My point was looking after one child and having a job as a single parent is hard, having two children and a job as a single parent is harder and so the very concept of 'live your own life as much as you can' with 10 or 11 children just doesn't seem even faintly realistic. I know people with 2 school age children and jobs with both parents there and even they can't just live their own lives hardly so with this many little children I think even the goal of 'living your own life as much as you can' is just not real. When you have lots of small children then you do not, cannot, just 'live your own life as much as you can' and afterall if you did want to just live your own life why would you have 10 kids anyway. I do not see the concept of 'your own life' with this many small children. For one thing there isn't the time.First of all, I never said she should leave the children and go away. I don't see why you had such a take of my comment. I said "as much as you can", which means beside responsibilities and so on.
I have 12 children in truth, I may have said 10 whenever....I call them tyrants as a way to describe their current behaviors due to the trauma they have endured. Part of the abuse I suffered was not having access to birth control, not having a choice to use it. Have you been educated on domestic violence ? Or experienced it yourself? It's hard to make sense of why anyone would stay or endure to someone who's never experienced it, I can't explain it right now to you. I agree it's a parent's job to raise their children and love them. I had 12 children not because I was very keen to raise them. I was trapped in an abusive relationship and I was F***** like a dog. Now it's my responsibility to stand up to what the Creator blessed me with based on my actions, choices, etc....Mary makes a very appreciated point, much more sensitive to what I'm going through then you Trojina. She's right. It's actually very fundamental, self-preservation first, so it's not that unbelievable or shameful. It's necessary. They are being abusive to me in my home. They need a lot of support. It's fair to say they are tyrannical in nature at the moment. It's not a situation that I can easily manage and you've never seen their force individually or as a unit that were trained day in and out to be disrespectful towards me. As pathetic as I've sounded in these posts, I'm incredibly strong and relentless myself so, it'll be fine, but I must be sure to take extra special care in so many ways. You strike me as someone who maybe has no children? Well, the ages, if you care to know for your own curiosity, are......Surely if you have young children, you chose to have them, you owe them everything as you bought them into the world and so you are responsible for them regardless of what they are like.
Adult children over 18 are a different matter but those being called 'tyrants' here may be very young and so their needs are paramount. I mean I don't think a person would have 10 children unless they were very keen to raise children (that is if they live in a country where contraception is easily available) and so having bought them to the planet it is clearly the parent's job to nurture them not label them 'tyrants'.
Also aren't there twin babies involved, I think I recall that from way back up the thread or maybe it was a very young baby and so when there are also 5,6 7 year olds then just walking off to 'live your own' life would be irresponsible not to mention unrealistic.
Perhaps you could remind us of the ages of your children Veronica. A single parent with 11 children probably doesn't have a great deal of time to write long posts here but a brief recap of their ages might help...or we could re-read the whole thread I guess.
This is very true as well. But the abuser actually used to say that...that I could have no life because of the number of children...so I wholeheartedly disagree and its all about coordinating and getting support. Its amazing actually how much my life, my personal life is just beginning. Being so hands on and involved with the children is already very rewarding even though it's been very, very hard.True, you did say 'as much as you can'. My point was looking after one child and having a job as a single parent is hard, having two children and a job as a single parent is harder and so the very concept of 'live your own life as much as you can' with 10 or 11 children just doesn't seem even faintly realistic. I know people with 2 school age children and jobs with both parents there and even they can't just live their own lives hardly so with this many little children I think even the goal of 'living your own life as much as you can' is just not real. When you have lots of small children then you do not, cannot, just 'live your own life as much as you can' and afterall if you did want to just live your own life why would you have 10 kids anyway. I do not see the concept of 'your own life' with this many small children. For one thing there isn't the time.
With that many children they are your life, you can't just have them and then go off and live your own life that is your life.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).